It’s no secret I’m addicted, possibly in love, with watching TV shows on my fancy DVR at home in between procrastinating on my wedding planning. More recently I’ve become infatuated with spotting places filmed in my current home town of Long Beach, CA on Showtime’s Dexter and HBO’s True Blood. I grew up in Los Angeles and watched film crews invade my old neighborhood from time to time, and I revel in it every single time! I use to work in Downtown Los Angeles during college and I would sneak out of the office to watch film crews and their trailers take over the vacant business district on the weekends, and try to spot a celebrity in between takes. This is why it’s so thrilling to recognize all those places I walk or drive by daily in a city I consider my second home, Long Beach. I annoy my fiancé and roommate all the time with my pointy finger wagging at the television saying where the scene was filmed in Los Angeles or Long Beach at least once a week.
I’ve learned a lot of things within the last nine months about the ups and downs of planning a wedding, and trying to make it unique to you. Nowadays it’s a lot easier, and more common place to hear about newlyweds creating their own geeky wedding. Which is great! However, there are also a lot of unforeseen complications with friends and family reacting to your…personal style. These are just a few tips, and personal observations, from a geeky lady who never thought she would have to plan a wedding.
For the record, my fiance and I love both of our families. Second, we are poor as sh*%, and don’t really have funds to help pay for a wedding. Third, our families have been amazingly supportive and offered to help create the wedding our dreams. They just didn’t know it would involve no real flowers, DIY decorations, dyed hair, tattoos, and non-uniformed wedding decorations. No pastels?! Gasp! When the parents heard our wedding colors were red and black they looked like someone stole their favorite toy. His mother is still trying to convince me that real flowers for the bride are just appropriate. Did I mention we’re making paper roses out of several different types of paper products? Including my bouquet? Amazing, right? Not to the Mom’s. In the beginning my fiance and I came up with a few creative ideas for our wedding like a Steam Punk theme or a cute video game themed wedding cake. Who doesn’t want a Super Mario wedding cake?! Not to the Mom’s. Which brings me to my number one rule…
Regina is a writer, a podcaster and a gamer and runs a blog over at www.gameongirl.com. She encourages intelligent and fun conversations about video games on her website and podcast — so if you’re a gamer (girl or boy!), you should check her out. Read her guest blog for us below to get an idea of her journey into the academic world as a Lady Geek.
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I am not sure when I was first called a geek. It was probably when I was pretty young. I had my glasses, my books, and my video games, each something that defines me as a geek.
One of the most important aspects of geek culture and of defining myself as a geek is that it allows me a certain amount of freedom that other titles donâ€™t allow. I can enthusiastically love the things I love, without shame or questioning. Even when I was younger and realized how different I was from many around me, constantly choosing the fantasy worlds books offered me over mindless TV watching, I knew who I was and was comfortable with that. I knew I was different and I didnâ€™t care. Thatâ€™s a pretty powerful thing.
We are excited to present to you a guest blog written by author, Piper Maitland, about her main character from ‘Acquainted With the Night.’ – an epic story about immortality and the fate of mankin. There are very frightening vampires and very sexy characters. Read more below to find out what her book is about.
Contest! We are also giving away ONE copy of her book. TO ENTER:Â Leave a comment with your e-mail/twitter/facebook or any way we can contact you if you are picked as the winner! Contest ends Thursday, Dec. 22, 2011.
Without further ado, please enjoy Piper Maitland’s blog.
Caro Clifford: the Flawed Heroine
â€œWell behaved women rarely make history.â€
–Laurel Thatcher Ulrich, historian and author
Grey isnâ€™t a color you will ever see in Greek Orthodox artâ€”medieval artists lived and worked in a black-and-white world. But shades of grey are vital when it comes to building a modern fictional heroine. When I began writing Acquainted With the Night, I wanted Caro Grimaldi Clifford to be a fundamentally flawed heroine. She doesnâ€™t always say the right thing, nor does she always act heroically. I knew it would be risky, but I was tired of playing it safe with my characters. As Caro came to life, her personality traits became layered, with room for her character to grow in the second book.
by Lisa Foiles
Look, I know what youâ€™re thinking: â€œLisa Foiles isnâ€™t qualified to write a Top 10 list! Sheâ€™s only good at Top 5 lists, like on her Internet show called â€˜Top 5 with Lisa Foiles,â€™ which was awesome until she canceled it and made all of her fans super cranky!â€
Well, Iâ€™ll have you know that the number â€˜10â€™ is, mathematically speaking, twice the number â€˜5.â€™ So, in mathematical terms, this list could potentially be TWICE as awesome as one of my normal Top 5 lists. Sure, thereâ€™s no silly video and you have no idea if Iâ€™m wearing a cute outfit while typing this or not, but I assure you â€“ Comikaze Expo has so many awesome events and special guests to talk about, this list practically writes itself.
Sit back, relax, pour yourself a non-alcoholic beverage if youâ€™ll be driving or are a child, and get ready to purchase wheelbarrow-loads of $12 Comikaze tickets, because this list is the most convincing piece of â€œjournalismâ€ youâ€™ll read all day:
#10. Comic books, comic books, comic books!
Comikaze is ALL about comics: The event will have a DC presence, as well as all of the best indie publishers. Weâ€™re talking over 200 vendors! Thatâ€™s a significantly large 3-digit number! And with Comikazeâ€™s $12 tickets, youâ€™ll have plenty of moneyz leftover for shopping.